why do older guys go for younger women

why do we see so many not-so-young men leaving their wives and families for young girls ..

as usual .. i would blame evolution instead of calling the guy a pervert .. all a guy wants (without him knowing) is to ensure that his gene goes on .. he wants to maximise the probability of having kids ..

there is a big difference between male and female fertility .. females reach their peak at the age of 20 and their fertility goes down very fast after the age of 35 .. same thing is applicable to males as well but the decline in fertility is not that pronounced .. this is also because the male just needs to fertilise a healthy egg but the female has to go though a much longer 9 month gestation period which requires her to be in top health conditions ..

so our ancestor males figured it out that if they want to maximize the probability of their gene's survival and have more babies they need to move to younger female partners once their current partners reach a not-so-fertile age of 40 and above .. this tendency of moving to younger girls has lived on deep inside the males long after till today .. its natural instinct that a guy in his 40s would get attracted to a girl in her 20s .. this is one of the reasons we as a specie have survived .. if it wasn't for this our chances of survival would have been much lower

why do guys want to have sex with a lot of girls

guys are always seen as assholes who would do anything to get into a girls pants and as many pants as possible .. but why is that .. why is this massive urge that guys have to have sex ..

for any specie to survive they have to have offsprings .. for them to have offsprings they need to have sex .. it takes 9 months after the egg is fertilised for the baby to come in the world .. so the female is booked for 9 months once she's pregnant .. the guy on the other hand is still available to mate .. now assuming evolution works and it dictates that the best genes are passed on to the next generation the most efficient way of doing this is to get 1 out of say 10 males' genes to pass on with 10 female genes .. so 10 guys fight it out, 1 of them (the strongest gene) wins and then he gets to "spread his seed" to get to the next generation .. the males are hardwired deep down inside to win the race and have sex with as many girls as he possibly can .. this is how we survived in the past and it will take a lot of time to get over this hardwiring (the monogamy is a very recent phenomenon).

hope this helps some girls see a reason to forgive their boyfriends when they catch him sleeping with some other girl .. its not his fault .. its evolution !